Dying: A Memoir
"Bracing and beautiful . . . Every human should read it." âThe New York Times
A New York Times Book ReviewÂ Editors' Choice and 2017 Critics' Pick
At the age of sixty, Cory Taylor is dying of melanoma-related brain cancer. Her illness is no longer treatable: she now weighs less than her neighborâs retriever. As her body weakens, she describes the experienceâthe vulnerability and strength, the courage and humility, the anger and acceptanceâof knowing she will soon die.
Written in the space of a few weeks, in a tremendous creative surge, this powerful and beautiful memoir is a clear-eyed account of what dying teaches: Taylor describes the tangle of her feelings, remembers the lives and deaths of her parents, and examines why she would like to be able to choose the circumstances of her death.
Taylorâs last words offer a vocabulary for readers to speak about the most difficult thing any of us will face. And while Dying: A Memoir is a deeply affecting meditation on death, it is also a funny and wise tribute to life.
- Hardcover: 152 pages
- Publisher: Tin House Books; 1 edition (August 1, 2017)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 1941040705
- ISBN-13: 978-1941040706
- Product Dimensions: 5.4 x 0.7 x 8.1 inches
- Shipping Weight: 9.1 ounces ()
?Dying is bracing and beautiful, possessed of an extraordinary intellectual and moral rigor. Every medical student should read it. Every human should read it. ?
- Jennifer Senior, The New York Times
?An eloquent plea for a more humane approach to death and a moving meditation on the life that leads to that end. . . . There is an ever expanding body of literature on coming to terms with mortality, and this entry ranks with the best.?
- Kirkus, Starred Review
?Honest, powerful, and moving . . . A deeply personal conversation about the alchemy of death, this brave memoir reveals the intimacy of the act, where 'we're like the last survivors on a sinking ship, huddled together for warmth.'?
?This slender volume brings a fresh point of view to end-of-life care, the concept of having a sense of control over the unknown, and the role of chance in life. This deep meditation is beautifully written and destined to be an important piece of the conversation surrounding death. Taylor?s last testament to life is a welcome departing gift from a thoughtful and inspired author.?
- Publishers Weekly, Starred Review
?An electrifying book about dying that?s part dreamy reminiscence, part philosophical monograph. The author, reckoning with Stage 4 melanoma, demystifies the final experience of our lives, exploring questions of control, fear and regret. My copy is underlined like a composition notebook. 'For what are we,' Taylor asks, 'if not a body taking a mind for a walk, just to see what?s there?'?
- The New York Times Book Review, Critics' Pick
?If a more open discussion of death is needed in the West, Taylor?s book is a manual for the task. It is full of wisdom and vulnerability; it is also profoundly reassuring. Dying, she repeatedly says, is deeply lonely. No one can do it with you. But this book might be a companion, made all the more solid by its lack of sentimentality and any other false comforts.?
- Times Literary Supplement
?Dying is a powerful, passionate, unflinching memoir about facing death and the choices and difficulty and beauty that entails. It should be required reading for all of us.?
- Ann Hood
?This small, powerful book offers a clean engagement with life?s conclusion: with clarity and courage, the author finds words to escort us towards silence.?
- Hilary Mantel
?Cory Taylor's book is both a precise and moving memoir about the randomness of family, and an admirable intellectual response to the randomness of life and death. We should all hope for as vivid a looking-back, and as cogent a looking-forward, when we reach the end ourselves.?
- Julian Barnes
?This is a powerful, poignant and lucid last testament, at once an eloquent plea for autonomy in death, and an evocation of the joys, sorrows, and sheer unpredictability and precariousness of life. It's a fine contribution to our much-needed dialogue with death.?
- Margaret Drabble
About the Author
Cory Taylor was an award-winning novelist and screenwriter who also published short fiction and children?s books. Her first novel, Me and Mr. Booker, won the Commonwealth Writers? Prize (Pacific Region) in 2012 and her second novel, My Beautiful Enemy, was shortlisted for the Miles Franklin Award in 2014. She died on July 5, 2016, shortly after Dying: A Memoir was published in Australia.
Dying: A Memoir
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